WHY ONLY GIRLS??
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It is very common all around that girls cheat on everyone, whether they have a relationship or not.In our society it is said that girls use boys only for their own work. But I rarely heard what boys did or whatsoever.
So do boys are angels?
As we all know Saqib arranged a contest and I'm reading stories every where and it's really sad to read that every story is ended that girl cheated on her lover..Ugh seriously
How can someone blame a girl without knowing anything??
In every story it is said that the boy was deceived because he truly loved. And the girl's excuse was that her parents had married her somewhere.
So is this a lame excuse??
I really don't know what our society wants..If a girl is sitting at home she is a burden to parents and brother. And when she loves someone, she is not even her control and even she can't argue with anyone not with parents nor her lover.
So what do you think she wouldn't try and argue with her parents??
And we guys think that she bow her head in front of her parents in silence.
The woman is always weak and I don't think anyone even tried to understand her.
The woman loves immensely and she tries her best to get love but this society and people...
It's very very easy to say don't listen to people. But later these are the people who start back biting and this is reality.
If a girl argue with parents or siblings, she would be killed in the name of honor but if she fights for love so let's suppose she get married with her lover then a few days later her love would be judged on this that the way you love me, there must be another one in your life and in the same way a girl would be punished for Love.
It's happening all around us.
And if the girl's family doesn't listen to her so you expect that she would climb the wall of her house and get married??
The girl has nothing but respect
The boy provoke her to do this but in this society everyone would blame a girl.
Why???
Whose fault is it??
A girl?? Or a boy?? Or parents? Or society??
It's the fault of everyone why parents argue with their kids but at the same time they are not wrong.If we look at today's situation how can they hand over their Daughter to any stranger??
If boys don't like his wife they can get married but have you ever think what would the situation of a girl who rejected her parents decision and sacrifice her life to his Lover.
Girls are the sensitive creature.
And still you guys say the girl cheated on us...
You guys just think your own and don't be selfish and try to understand her situation.
I hope this question would arise then why she loves a guy??
So my question is
Do you have a control on yourself??
A big Noooooo
A human has no control in Love exactly in the same way..You fall in love when you see someone and same when you talk you fall in love.A girl is also human.
Ask a girl about her situation how she handle everything and she have to chose one lover or parents..This is obvious he would chose parents because they are more sincere than anyone else.
So next time instead of calling her unfaithful just think about her situation.
Seriously we girls have no life we are like machines who are controlled by society, parents and every one.
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Laraib Iqbal 27 Jan21
Maryam khan 28 JanHmm, but how can someone say at the end that she cheated on me because her parents were not willing to get married to him or something else why not everybody understands that it's not in her control then how can someone blame only a girl??
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Zeeshan Hanif 28 JanYes angry to your reply but I think both have equal blame.sometime girls makes cheat and some time boys make cheat
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Zeeshan Hanif 27 JanSome girls makes relationship to make benefits and when their requirement are fulfilled they does not care of any one.But some girls are sincere to their relationship.Islam is the only religion which gives best rule for women relationship.
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Maryam khan 28 JanHehe this is what I'm saying and this is our mentality but have you ever asked a girl why she did so??
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Zeeshan Hanif 28 JanIf you want to make relationship you must have proper awareness about that girl.
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Zeeshan Hanif 28 JanI believe that mostly girls do so because they are not feeling easy with someone but it's not mean that he takes benefits from this person.
Moreover you asked me that have you ever asked some body about this? I say to you that it's not a thing to be asked but it is experienced by many people that I heard from many friends and other people.
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I think it's foolist to blame a gender where decisions are taken by society and parents.
Culture, heritage, societies matters why would I think to commit myself and promise someone considering that in the ends I want to follow my parents (Honestly I don't call them parents if they are choosing society standard over their child happiness) or have to think about stereotypes (What people will say).
It's a simple blame game if I'm cheated I'll blame her if she is cheated she will blame him in the end both suffers just because they didn't think before they proceed :)
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Maryam khan 28 JanIt's not our parents fault then how can we blame them? It's a long debate and no one is willing to accept his or her fault LOL
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Bashir Ahmed Khan 27 JanStrongly agree with you girls are used more then boys but boys are also used on many occasions but in out society girls are blamed
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Maryam khan 28 JanI really don't know when this type of mentality will change in our society there must be no gender discrimination
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Adams Toskid 27 JanYes, you are right I agree with you... Girl are fun of cheating here and there, dou same issue happens to boys but not common, I will say maybe because their heart is flexible its easy to enter them.
Nice post.
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Maryam khan 28 JanWhat??? But in this post, I tried to defend girls hehe but you're saying girls hearts are flexible LOL
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Adams Toskid 28 JanLol, I want to open what you are defending that's why I said " girls heart are flexible "
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Maryam khan 28 JanHehe so funny you're but this flexibility is given by boys LOL
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Adams Toskid 28 Jan😂😂 I see, infact you totally give it to boys....