WHAT DO YOU TRULY WANT?
This is a question that can be so hard to answer yet, it is such a simple question. You may feel that you were brought up not to openly want things and so therefore, avoid even going there in your mind. You must listen to yourself and know what you truly want with no judgement or influence from others.
CREATE A REAL LIFE
With the constant presence of social media, we compare ourselves with others and think that we have to do certain things because they do. If you focus your energy on achieving goals that are not real to you then, you are not only at risk of not achieving them but also, risk taking yourself off course from the life you actually want to live.
Setting your goals in the present tense as if you have already achieved them, allows your synapses to fire off and create a neural pathway for the goals. Visualising that moment when you have achieved that goal allows you to experience just how much it will change your life, and to understand what it will give you to put fire in your belly to go and make it happen.
We all have moments or days when we wish we had more confidence, when we don't really feel our best and strongest self. But we can think of a moment where we have felt invisible, where we have felt exhilarated, wonderful, powerful and as if we could rule the world. It might be a sporting achievement, a professional moment or a hobby we are passionate about. Whatever that moment is for you, there is tremendous power in that moment that we can harness whenever we need a boost.
WHAT IS YOUR "TO BE" LIST?
We all have a list of the things we want to do but what about a list of things you want to be? After all, we are human beings but how often do you consider who you need to be today? It is not about pretending to be someone you're not but rather, recognising that you have qualities at different moments. It is beneficial to connect with those parts of yourself and invite them to help you in whatever it is that you are undertaking. You can create the list first thing in the morning before you leave the house to start your day. What is it about yourself you would like to show up today? Do you want to smile more or show more love to people around??
MAKE BETTER CHOICES
We are all working towards something and we all have moments when we make mistakes. Chances are, you might know what you are likely to fall over. Perhaps, you know better choices to make but give in to the first temptation! Always make the better choices without negotiation or consideration!!
How much you search for an answer sometimes, your conscious mind seems not to provide it. This is when it becomes necessary to switching through your subconscious mind which can be really helpful. Focus on the things you want to know and ask yourself specific questions! Should I go into crypto trading full time? Should I buy 1UP and level up my account?? What is that thing that you really need right now? Focus your subconscious mind on it!!!
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