In this life there are people you can never impress or make them to love you due to one reason or the other. The reason why it's difficult for some people to love us is sometimes because they hate the family we come from or maybe they are our family enemy.

There's a saying in Africa that says "if a man hate his wife there's no how he will love her child and if he loves the wife he loves everything that comes from the wife including the children" this is exactly how things are. Don't think if a person is your family enemy or hate your family it doesn't mean the person can't love you, no. Before a person love you he or she must love your family before the love is genuine but if the person doesn't love your family that means you are only fooling yourself. 

Anyone claiming to love you when he or she doesn't love your family can hurt you just to get back at your family. It's not good to keep enemies but it's wise to stay away from people that dislike your family because you won't be exempted from the person hate list. If you feel like you can change the hatred between your families then act with caution and don't forget that once an enemy is always an enemy and sometimes when you feel the hatred is gone all they want is a perfect time to strike again.

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