ONLY IF YOU ARE READY

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I remembered when I was still doing my NCE program in year 2012, I have this friend who keeps saying when she graduates, she will go and get married straight. I wonder why many are in a haste to get married. I told her "only if you are ready".



Then I graduated before her and after a year, she called me she is getting married, I couldn't go because of some circumstances. Now, this friend of mine will keep calling me to send her money to feed her family. Why? I felt pity for her.







I remembered I told her then "If only you are ready". Many of us do not plan our lives well and some aren't ready but they just opt-in because they want to feel the joy in having husband or wife. 



The truth is, you will rush out if you do not plan your life well before signing that contract. This is a life contract for God's sake. It is an institution of not going back once you enter. This is something you will forever enjoy till death separate you. Why then are you in a rush?



In fact, I can say 75% of my mates then in school are now getting married and I wonder "why can't they wait?" Though we all are different, their time is not mine, so I can't follow the multitude. 






What I am saying is to get married if only you are ready. Don't say because your friends, mates are getting married, you also want to go for it. Your time is different, don't rush in so you don't rush out.



Make sure you are prepared for it before you go into it. Don't start regretting your actions in the future when you can wait now.



Good morning 



~PrincessBusayo























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Fola_Jay Ayo-Folorunso
31 Jul

The way people take this marriage thing like its a competition sef. Sometimes it just tires me out

Don't get me wrong! I definitely want to get married and enjoy all there is to enjoy in marriage... But there are certain things I must put in place first before I can even dream of getting married...

My wife and children can't come and suffer because daddy didn't have sense

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Princess Busayo
31 Jul

Well said Fola, we must not be blinded by love or comparison that will not make us wait to prepare and put things in place before heading to the journey of marriage. Thanks for stopping by. 

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Dr. Alafem .
31 Jul

Beautiful thought you've shared here.

Financial, physical, mental and sometimes essential materials maturity are core before one make move to enter into marriage.

Don't rush in if you perceived you don't have means of livelihood to sustain it

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Princess Busayo
31 Jul

Exactly, one need to put those in place before entering into it. I appreciate your feedback Sir

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Eunigold Paul
31 Jul

Marriage is a blessing from God.If really the both are destined for each other I don't think they will beg. There is a blessing that follow when you get married.But prior you get that blessing you must be ready financially and emotionally then you will never lack.

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Princess Busayo
31 Jul

God bless you for this comment. We need to be ready first before going into that marriage. This marriage will surely wait for us, so why in a haste? Thanks for stopping by.

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Glory Zakari
31 Jul

Hmmmm... Thanks for sharing dear. Many people just rush into marriage without proper planing. Marriage is rush in rush out oh...dem no dey tell person 😂

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Princess Busayo
31 Jul

If you don't make plans before entering into it, you will rush out and regret. Thanks for stopping by. 

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Oxygen O2
31 Jul

Marriage is an institution on its own and someone need to take his/her time before proceeding to the institution. The problem today is imitation, many people rushed into it simply because their friends are married forgetting the fact that fingers are not equal.

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Princess Busayo
31 Jul

Fingers are not equal and we should remember that. Our time is different from others. Thanks for stopping by dear. 

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