Not your's to abort

She lost her life in a process because she did not know what to do during that challenging situation, many advised her to go through the process that it is safe that she is not the only person that people have done it before and they are living a normal life now, it was an unwanted pregnancy outside of marriage, she couldn't imagine the shame and disgrace she was going to face with that, in fact in the family it a big taboo to be pregnant outside of wedlock, why she was considering many options her friend's advice to her to abort the baby became the best, she said within herself "if I abort my Dad would not beware in the first place but if I should run away, I will be caught and the stigma will be greater.


 


 


 


Livano finally made up her mind to abort the child accompanied by her friends to take the drug to expel the premature innocent child, as she took the drug she became restless, the friends became worried because the previous abortion they did with that same drug did not react in this manner, suddenly livano started shaking like a leaf without control and blood started pouring out from her genital organ, the blood was pouring out uncontrollable, the friends that were there with her became afraid and rush her to the hospital but before they went there, she gave up the ghost, the rest is history now.


 


Children are gifts from God even if it comes through an unholy union, if a child appears let it be, it is not given to you to abort, that child coming have a destiny to fulfilled and a vision and purpose for life, the process of getting the child might be wrong but that child growing in the womb is not wrong, the child is from God, there are so many couples praying to just be blessed by a child, they will have sexual intercourse but the wife will not become pregnant, this should make us believe more that children are a real gift from God, it not necessarily by sexual intercourse.




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Gilbert Boniface
17 Jan

I totally agree your perception on this. 

But you can't bring a child to the world to suffer or you can't find for. 

So what's the need bringing such child. That's why we ways use protection in a sexual intercourse. 

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Kris JS
17 Jan

I don't agree with this im afraid, there are many instances when an abortion could be a better option. What if someone was raped? Is it OK that the child is a constant reminder to the mother of the horrendous ordeal she went through? What if the woman has no money or shelter? Is it OK to bring a child into the world that she can't look after, care for or feed? Is this fair to the child? What if early pregnancy tests show signs of abnormalities? is this also fair on the child to be brought into the world to face certain struggle with no way to ever look after themselves? Abortion isn't an easy decision to make for any mother but sometimes it is the right one. Who are we to judge others and their situation and to tell them what is right or wrong! Being pregnant isn't an intervention from God, it's a biological creation from a man and a woman and they have the right to make a decision based on their circumstances. 

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Ifiok Eso
18 Jan

Anyway, thanks for the down vote, @Kris JS but first, the content didn't state that she was raped. Also you talk of abnormalities, that's not an excuse to abort the child. I have seen people with big abnormalities grows to do better in life even more than people who re normal. 

Our God is not an author of confusion, the plans He has for us is that of good and not of evil. He will never give you an abnormal child if you do the right thing.

Was the girl right? Why did she lost her life in the course of the abortion.

Who knows what that child would have grown to be.

Abortion is bad and it is a sin in my own opinion, let call a spade a spade..

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Idoko Joseph Adoyi
18 Jan

Your perspective on this call for a long discussion, creation happen even in the womb ,there are people that are ok ,certified that there is nothing wrong with them  yet they can't give birth ,there are certain things beyond science and human comprehension.

I have seen children born with certain abnormalities some were corrected after birth others they live with it and use that as a medium to influence and impact the world positively ,no matter the abnormalities you can still make a difference.

We may have different opinions on this but the truth still stands.

Am not in any way judging ,there are still kind people that can help rise children of poor people ,there are orphanages that even assist as well,so one can take advantage of that as well.

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Kris JS
18 Jan

God will never give you an abnormal child if you do the right thing? This is literally the dumbest thing I have read on Uptrennd! I have friends who are the Kindest most thoughtful people I know who have a severely disabled little boy with a high chance he won't see 5th birthday but from your opinion they must have done something wrong to deserve that? I didn't realise people like you with such narrow minded ignorance still existed. 

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Kris JS
18 Jan

So you think it's acceptable to be forced to have a child and then send it to an orphanage because you can't look after it yourself? You think this is fair on the child to have to grow up without its natural father and mother? Every child should have the best chance of a good life with loving parents and not just be a by product of sex to with as we please once they are born. 

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Ifiok Eso
18 Jan

If the child must die, let him or her die a natural dead. If you end his or her life for any reason, then you're a murderer.  Its a shame for you to bring children into the world that you can't carter for, why did you had to bring them in the first place, why didn't you let them be where they where. Ending their life is still not a better option. Call me whatever you want to call me, i don't care, the perfect one..  

I stand with what i believe..

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Kris JS
18 Jan

You keep believing what you are brainwashed to believe, if it makes you happy to be so ignorant and judgmental then so be it. I'm just thankful that not everyone is like you. 

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Kris JS
18 Jan

So you would rather a child was born and was allowed to suffer as it dies than to die painlessly? Wow! That tells me alot about you. 

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Idoko Joseph Adoyi
18 Jan

Pain is a condition that is subject to change , scientifically or supernaturally ,I have witness children born with terrible condition that science didn't have solution to but with divine intervention the child became normal living a purpose driven life .I have heard and witness so many myself.

We cant conclude in a matter when God has not concluded

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Idoko Joseph Adoyi
18 Jan

@ ifiok eso 

Wow I have been impacted by this fellow a lot 

Nick Vujicic is a genius a very powerful motivational speaker I love listening to him , imagine if he was kill prematurely because of his physical challenges , destinies and life that he was meant to saved won't have been lost forever .thank you sir for this example

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Ifiok Eso
18 Jan

Kindest most thoughtful people, are you them? Or are you living for them? Are you in their genes? You only know yourself, live others because you don't know what they re made off.

That abnormal child maybe abnormal in your side, but normal in the sight of God.

The abnormal people in the world today, were they not given birth to by people?

Haven't you heard of Nick Vujicic? The Australian born without arms and legs? But living a happy life, he swims, Mary's with a child and a very respected motivational speaker across in the world, going around been a blessing to his generation? @Kris JS was he not born abnormal?

Abortion is a sin my dear, believe it or not.

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Ifiok Eso
18 Jan

Yes Sir, no one should be like me, because am not like any another. I am me, and you're you. We re all unique beings. Thank you..

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Ifiok Eso
18 Jan

I don't know why you're judging me and getting this whole thing wrong. Abortion in my religion and culture is a sin. That's all what am trying to let you understand Sir. It might be allowed in your own culture and religion, but in mind it's a sin. Please don't take it personal my honourable guardian @Kris JS, before you put me in mind and be down voting  me, lol... We re all entitle to our opinions and believe. Thankyou Sir.

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Ifiok Eso
17 Jan

Abortion is a sin. If you're not ready to have a child, stay away from the things that will give you one. Remember you were not aborted 

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Kris JS
17 Jan

So a woman should be forced to bear a child after being raped should she? Your comment is quite ignorant! 

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Idoko Joseph Adoyi
18 Jan

This is a very sensitive topic ,well we have the free will ,but a better alternative was given for us to chose ,it not a force but a thing of choice,pardon my topic

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Idoko Joseph Adoyi
18 Jan

Rape is bad but the child coming ,you dont know his destiny ,sir with all due respect ,I will not advice any one to take the life of an unborn child.i meant no offense.

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JOEBLACK STONE
18 Jan

Everyone is right from their own perception, what's wrong in another culture is totally acceptable in another's culture.

From religious aspect of view, it is totally wrong to commit an abortion, while biologically, it could be accepted if any abnormality is found.

But pregnancy can be avoided from the early stage of rape, since the rapist didn't use any protection, the lady could probably protect her self from being pregnant before it could even result in pregnancy.

To me, allowing a baby to born into the world when you as a mother is not even ready to Carter for the needs of the child could even pose the child to emotional and psychological problems why not disallow rhat

Every option is good, besides we are not God, we shouldn't judge other people because we are not in their shoes

A popular adage says, it is he that wears a shoe that knows where is itching him/hee

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Idoko Joseph Adoyi
18 Jan

Truely speaking it a free choice to do as you please ,it is not forced on any one ,our perceptive on certain issues differs and it needful to  allow people express their ideas  and view point without attacking them even if we don't agree with it

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Emmanuel Amoma
18 Jan

Let's just cut the story short, everybody has his own wishes. so whenever you wish from God that's what you get, so your wish is your command. make-a-wish and is due is going to do it for you, I know people think it's very difficult but I believe it's just your mindset whatever you desire you have, so it says it's just life for you.

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