It's easy to love someone when they're at their best, when they're normal and stable. Coz you know they won't demand anything at that time not even your attention, they will compromise coz they're strong. But it's hard to love someone at their lowest, when they are moody, needy, intolerant and impatient. It's hard to love someone when they need it most. It's easy to label them as "unrealistic" "complicated" etc but if you do this, you're actually being rude to them. They don't need your "why" and "how" they just need an assurance that you're here. And guess what, that's the hardest thing for people to do. And that's where actual test of true love begins.
Believe you me, Words can do wonders if they're used rightly...
If you are sincere to someone just show it, put those little efforts. Atleast show your love when they need it most. At those vulnerable moments when even they don't know what's wrong with them... :)
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