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Life is not a competition

Your life is yours. You need to live it the way it suits you best. Comparison is one thing while competition is another. Comparing yourself with another makes you feel either too good or too unworthy, both of which are unrealistic. Each of us have our own kind of skills and talents which are different from the other, this is the way in which we are wired. So it is rather foolish to compare yourself to another and feel bad about yourself.


Such comparisons lead to building up of unhealthy emotions. Feeling of insecurity, poor self-worth and  unrealistic opinion of self all harm you in numerous ways. These feelings could push some towards competing with the other, rivalry and mainly loss of the real camaraderie that was once there, while it would make others just give up on themselves.


Bitterness could result from such comparisons and competition. People could lose their balance in life as their whole focus is on getting better than the other.  In this game of competition the joy of living is lost. Life becomes a rat race on a single track.  


What is the point of such a life? No matter what you have you are still in competition and never able to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. there is always another goal to be achieved another race to run. By doing so you risk your lives and that of your loved ones.


All we gain for ourselves diseases, negative feelings and dissatisfaction with life alone. 


The peace and the contentment of enjoying what we have and the ability to make the best of our family, friends and the resources have is never ours. 


Once again let me reiterate, your life is yours. Live it the way the Lord made it for you. His plan for each one of us is unique. So let's life our life in contentment and happiness, enjoying what we have. 




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Tayyab Ali
22 Apr

You will feel jealousy when you are there for comparison and this feeling isn't good for your health, mentality and doesn't suit to your personality.. comparison cause mental disturbances and it causes stress

In stress you can't perform at your best

3

Jera Fatima
22 Apr

Yeah! Life is tooo short so we should enjoy life without making it critical.

11

Tayyab Ali
22 Apr

Your life depends upon your decisions either you make it good or bad

3

Jera Fatima
22 Apr

Of course but some people inttrupet our life by putting their decision on us. But we should ignore such toxic PEOPLE. 🤪

22

Sofs Su
22 Apr

That's right, jealousy and greed are never good for our meantal and physical health. Its even worse for our spiritual health.

11

Gohar Ali
22 Apr

Competition is jealousy. And jealous burns the person itself. People lose their balance of life and they are just following other, coping with them and try to give better then them.they forget their actual goal and what their motivation.

12

James Essien
22 Apr

Yes competition usually brings about jealousy and hatred.

22

Sofs Su
22 Apr

That is right unhealthy competition is notb good for our well being.

13

RinNy Mboro
22 Apr

The result of comparison is hate and competition isn't healthy

Life's everyone living for himself so no need to compare oneself with another just so emnity won't be created 

12

James Essien
22 Apr

That is the truth on a long way to this competition in enemity will be created.

22

Sofs Su
23 Apr

Yip, we do not need hatred and envy do we. We need peace and joy.

10

Mr.Oxman Oxi
22 Apr

Very true our life is our sometimes we compare ourself and feeling too much better but sometimes we lost our peace we lost our happiness 

It's totally depends on our satisfaction we should try to satisfy with ourself and try to compare those people who are less than your level don't compare with yourself with upper level 

3

Jera Fatima
22 Apr

Yeah our life should be according to our choice. And satisfaction gives us pleasure and calmness.

22

Sofs Su
22 Apr

We are sure to lose our peace and joy when we get into competition with others.

7

Freekay Gold
22 Apr

This life is not were we should be competitive  our self with others everyone has there own future to achieve don't waste yours on other people's failure.

22

Sofs Su
22 Apr

I belive all of us have our destinations and trying to get to anothers destination is rather foolish.

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