LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX!
It's hard to find a relationship now that does not involve sex. The desire to have sex is normal. Sex isn't a bad thing in itself. The way you have it and the person you have it with is what determines what it is to you.



Nowadays, people no longer see sex as a big deal. Some people will have sex with anyone and anytime with no emotional attachment or strings attached  so long it is consensual  and trust me such types of sex are most times amazing but not as amazing as the ones you have with someone you truly care about and perhaps in love with.



Some however hold sex sacred. They will never have sex with you except in a committed relationship.  Whether you are just having sex for fun without being in a committed relationship or you are having it with someone you are committed to, so long it is outside the walls of marriage there could be consequences.



There are lots of ways of ensuring safe sex but apparently a lot of people still prefer to skin dive. With the unending list of STDs and STIs, you'd think people will be very cautious about it but hell no, they come up with several silly excuses while they couldn't get to a condom at that moment or use a contraceptive pill.



I have a problem with this term "unwanted pregnancy". Was it really unwanted? I mean except she was raped, if it was consensual then there is nothing unwanted about it. When you have sex with a guy without protection and he cums inside you, what were you expecting? A growth of protein or perhaps an increase in wisdom and understanding? 



What surprises me more is when after it has resulted in pregnancy, they suddenly realise they can't marry each other for one insane reason or the other. You hear excuses like she's not educated. Oh well, in-between her legs seems to be educated enough for you. Or perhaps, he's so poor I can't marry him but seems his third leg had all the riches you would ever need.



I agree that having sex with someone isn't a prerogative to getting married to the person


But


Why have unsafe sex with someone you don't see a future with?




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COMMENT

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Odudu Okopide
11 Sep

I cannot talk about sex because I know nothing about it... Zizy, I'm still a virgin. 

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Ademujimi Ifedayo
11 Sep

Nobody knows you as a Virgin here man. Are you trying to deny CHIOMA the mother of your children 

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Segun Charles
11 Sep

Hahahah. Chioma must be his step mother lol. Virgin at 43 lol. 

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Augustina Omadimhe
11 Sep

Hahaha, the only uptrennd virgin is here, pls go forward before Zizy will spoil you for us. 😁😁

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17

Odudu Okopide
11 Sep

Omg! Please, I don't know anyone called Chioma oh. 

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Kenneth Aigbuza
11 Sep

Who is this one na.. I think it is time to open you sex book of record.. Infact I still have that video ooo

don't forget ooo

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Odudu Okopide
11 Sep

No oh... She's not... I don't even know her 😭😭😭

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Segun Charles
11 Sep

Pls don't cast him. He is born again so, he has forgotten all those records. Don't remind me again. 

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17

Odudu Okopide
11 Sep

Hahahaha... Wch video? I'll soon bite you now. 

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Adeleye Abdulqudus
11 Sep

So you self no be virgin. That my friend is dying to marry you 😄😄😄😄

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6

Inyang John
11 Sep

hahahah

you will know when we upload your wedding pictures with Chioma 

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17

Odudu Okopide
11 Sep

Ikpa! I'll soon bite you. 

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18

Mimi Jay
11 Sep

So you carried this virgin things to Zizy's post, I'm all out to drag you everywhere today 😂 

Go and sleep joo

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18

Michael Gimba
11 Sep

@Odudu you are not alone on this am also a virgin bro

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8

Treasure Ng
11 Sep

Lol is he devido?

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4

Freeman Eddie
11 Sep

all of us are virgins

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3

Master El
11 Sep

It's okay to be a virgin... someday you'll have the experience and you can have your own contribution to make

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ABC _
11 Sep

Dear virgin didn't you understand something from this post.

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John Afolayan
12 Sep

Then I guess we have something in common.

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Yasmin Kanwal
12 Sep

No problem.you will get to know after marriage

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Saadat Ibrahim
11 Sep

Well it just depends on how you view sex. 

If you hold it sacred then you won't like the idea of just having sex for fun 

But if you see it as just a thing to enjoy then nothing fazes you you'll hook up with who you admire and enjoy your self how you like even if it's skin dive..... Of course 

The problem is people don't like taking responsibility for there actions 

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Michael Gimba
11 Sep

Agreed with you on this alot of people don't like taking responsibility that's the problem 

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@victoraffiang 9ja
11 Sep

Lol these days having sex is just fun and have no attachment,  but when having the fun and the big problem comes one must be prepared  to take responsibility. As for me I don't have sex with anyhow person,  it must be someone I know I can marry if pregnancy comes. 

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Kenneth Aigbuza
11 Sep

That is where many really miss it.. Having sex anyhow like dogs.. No offence.. But how have sex with someone you know if sex goes wrong, you won't be able to marry.. Not a cool one at all.. 

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Abiodun Oguntuyi
11 Sep

Sex is meant for married couples, no Wonder many destiny has been truncated as a result of unwanted pregnancy and other associated diseases. I don't see reason why you should have sex with someone you can't marry. 

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Mahnoor Amna
11 Sep

Exactly my point...... But people these days just wanna have sex nothing else 

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Ene Oketa
12 Sep

Exactly and they term it friends with benefits....sex for money, sex for sex, sex for grades or sex for jobs etc

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PNPONLINE Official
11 Sep

Exactly why have sex at all if not to marry her in the end.. it just shows irresponsiblity and I feel really angry when men leave a girl they got pregnant to fend for her self and the child after they have taken the risk of unprotected sex with her while not also take the risk of marriage with her as well

 Weak men

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