Am I criticized ??? ???
Does criticism affect you?
How does it feel when someone criticizes you?
Generally, when someone blames you, you feel burdened and upset or become unhappy. You are hurt because you resist charges. Externally you may not resist, but when you resist somewhere inside, you are in pain. When someone blames you, you in turn blame them or build a wall within yourself. When someone criticized me in childhood literally I wanted to kill them I was like "how can they do this to me " ...
An accusation takes away some of your evil deeds from you. If you understand this and feel happy about it without creating any resistance, then your karma will disappear. Externally you can resist, but don't resist within yourself, but be happy, "Ouch, very nice, there is someone who is taking some of my evil deeds by accusing me." And thus immediately you will start feeling lighter.
Let's Welcome the criticism
- Patience and trust are the way to deal with allegations. The belief that truth will always prevail and the situation will improve. Whatever work you do, there will be someone who will make your mistake. Keep doing your work without losing enthusiasm An enlightened person will continue to do good deeds according to his nature. His attitude will not be influenced by praise or criticism of anyone.
- To uplift your soul and protect your mind from the tendency to criticize, you need to assess your fellowship. The effect of good faith can lift you up or drop you down. And dragged towards the desires, is illogical. And what attracts you in the direction of bliss, enthusiasm, service, love, faith, and knowledge is consistent.
- An ignorant says, "Don't blame me because it hurts me. An enlightened person says," Don't blame me because it will hurt you. "That's a beautiful thing. Someone warns you not to blame Because it will hurt them and they will hurt you while suffering from revenge. On the other hand, an enlightened person tells you not to criticize because of compassion. The tendency to bully and accuse destroys relationships. You should know how to praise others and make a situation better, instead of taking the blame or accusing others. Your commitment should be to uplift others. Only then you are the right person for anyone. You Everyone will get love when you will not hurt them intentionally.
Criticism and maturity
You are not here to accuse or criticize. Criticism can come from two types of people. When they have parochialism, they criticize their ignorance. Or they really want to instill something good in you. If criticism is coming from the perspective of bringing change in you, then thank them for their kindness. You can improve yourself because their criticism makes you feel your mistake. If criticism is coming from the perspective of degrading you, be compassionate and avoid them with laughter. In both cases, you do not need to worry.
If you will not fall If everyone around you praises you, they will not show you your shortcomings. Those people who criticize are authentic because they are keeping their hearts open. There is a need that you can give constructive criticism or accept it. A well-educated person will neither shy away from criticism nor shy away from the critic. The assessment of your maturity depends on how you handle criticism. The ability to accept criticism is the criterion of your spiritual force. Just let others speak and do what you like...
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