The way God design man and his destiny failure was not in the equation, God never made man failure, saying this doesn't mean if you refuse to follow the design and patterns lay down you won't fail, sure you will fail if you don't follow the patterns and the principles that will bring success your way.
It is not a good thing to fail but many times man learn from his mistakes and when he corrects what he or she have been doing wrong success is sure, about 90% of our results in life come from the personal decision we make on a daily basis, your Dad is responsible for bringing you up to a certain level ie to the age of accountability but your success is truly determine by you not them and whether you succeed or not the blame is not on them at all, take responsibility for your life today.
The success formula is not a hidden one even the Bible teaches many principles of success in the kingdom.
read Joshua 1:8
"This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have success."
KJV Study Bible
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=kjv.study.bible
Here God is telling the believers that the one of the spiritual formula for success is to meditate on his words and never let it depart from thy heart and mouth and act on the word and keep all the instructions he gives and spells out in his words, and anyone at all that keeps this formula without substrating and adding to it must always succeed, so it all depends on the individual.
The mindset that says my dad is the cause of my failures or success is a deep lack of knowledge and ignorant in display, and don't be confuse success is not one fold, from God standpoint success is all-round including your health, families, relationships, associations, finance, knowledge and wisdom etc
Take responsibility today and stop blaming others for your present predicaments., you are responsible.
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It's true that until we take responsibility for what we have done, we will not learn to overcome our fears and problems.
Blaming others makes us very weak and we just forget to accept the reality. That sometimes leads to lots of problems......
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Idoko Joseph Adoyi 21 FebI totally agree with you sir ,it vital to take responsibility of our lives because everything we do receive the resultant effect just like the law of cause and effect,so if we take action to succeed we will see success but if we remain in our comfort zone and do nothing ,then we will remain mediocre s
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JOEBLACK STONE 21 FebWell, you have said it all brother, no need to blame anyone for our own misfortune, all we need to do is just take responsibilities for whatever is going wrong in our lives that just the first step to achieve success in life, we should never blame God, or our parents
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Agaga Julius 21 FebBlaming someone for your present situation is not the best option because you may enen be the cause of your situation. Just ensure to trust God for he alone can lift you from the bad situations you are to your success.
Trust God
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Idoko Joseph Adoyi 21 FebLaid no blame ,that is the way forward , I personally run away from people that complain and blame other for their misfortune because they have they ability of corrupting your mind of you keep listening to them
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Alagbe Adeniyi 21 FebDon't blame anyone for your misfortunes but hope in God for a wonderful betterment..
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Idoko Joseph Adoyi 21 FebHope and do what is required as faith without work is death.
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It is better to assume our faults, because: If we limit ourselves to blaming others for our mistakes, we will never assume our fault or seek a way to improve.
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Idoko Joseph Adoyi 21 FebVery correct sir ,it time individuals come alive and leave the old ways that have stop alot of people from achieving their dream and fulfilling purpose